Oh Boy, tried CL for 1st time ...

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Oh Boy, tried CL for 1st time ...
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:42pm
Not sure what I am getting myself into but I am feeling adventerous & bored, lol.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 3:47pm

How funny - I just decided I was going to post on CL, too - literally a few minutes ago.

Good luck tonight! You know how to be careful.


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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 4:14pm

CL is a trip, isn't it!!

Be careful with the guy tonight if you do end up meeting him (but it sounds like you will be). I don't think many guys would drive that far for drinks without having an agenda ;-).

What happened to the other guy you were seeing, anyway? Sorry, I don't remember seeing an update post about him...but it sounds like you're not seeing him anymore?

Sheri

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 4:28pm

Yes, be very careful!

heather 5-18-10
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 9:52pm

Just be careful, but you know that already. :-)

I normally don't meet men that quickly and in that fashion either, but sometimes it works out.







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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 10:27pm

Well!

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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 10:48am
Not trying to be a kill joy here, but there are red flags all over this! Be careful. Sounds to me that he definately has an agenda. Kim
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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 10:59am
I'm glad you did something fun last night. I changed my profile on my web dating site saying I am not into casual sex or friends with benefits. Amazing, lots of hits and no responses. Last night, this guy I was dating/friend made a comment about being his f-buddy. I don't think so. He has invited me to dinner tonight (we are good friends) but I am not sure I want to go, not sure if he has an agenda to hook up. I know I need to be honest about all this and flat out tell him, we are friends and that's all. The only time he seems to pay attention to me is when I stop calling him. Kim
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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 11:02am
You werent kidding! lol

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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 11:03am
WHAT is with these men? Sheesh.
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Sat, 04-22-2006 - 11:57am

Watch out for this. I too had a good male friend who talked to me about being a FWB after he broke up with his girlfriend, but I was soooo not interested (I actually had the hots for his dad - ROFL). I told him I wasn't interested and he revved it up into high gear, telling me that I drive him crazy and he can't stop thinking about me. He even made me curtains. He really started to cross the line though pressuring me to hug and kiss him and staying at my house way too long until I finally had to tell him off and stop returning his calls. It's sad that it ended our friendship, but I don't really want to be friends with someone like that anyway. I saw his true colors and I didn't like them one bit. Good luck to you!

Mel

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