oh man!

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Registered: 06-27-2005
oh man!
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Wed, 07-06-2005 - 8:06pm
What to do?
Overbooking..
Since my intense dating with the "lawyer guy" - I caught him on-line yesterday so I scheduled 1st meet with another guy for Thursday.
Now it's looking that "lawyer guy" would like to get together tomorrow too :)
Here is the dilemma - I have been corresponding with "OR guy"(I take it operating room) and I feel it's time to meet and if I back out at the last minute - he will get suspicious and I DO want to meet him.
On the other hand - I am really interested in "lawyer guy" who might be a player plus if I don't see him this Thursday - it will be not until next Wed since my son is coming home from his dad's.
Confused girl here - please knock some sense into me :)



Edited 7/6/2005 8:07 pm ET ET by ivosoh
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In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:09pm
yes, I am in Cinci. Aren't you in Cleveland area?
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Registered: 10-27-2003
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:20pm
No, we're neighbor's! Jodie and I are both in Louisville.
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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:26pm

do you think I should ask lawyer man what was he doing on match.com or should I just sit back and observe? What makes it bad really is the fact that the "deed" was done. I don't have any regrets other than just wondering - should I just dump him all together?

Edited 7/6/2005 9:26 pm ET ET by ivosoh




Edited 7/6/2005 9:28 pm ET ET by ivosoh
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Registered: 10-27-2003
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:33pm
Don't mention it. Basically it's none of your business because you've not entered into an exclusive relationship with him. I don't mean that to sound rude, but that is probably how he would view it. And if you did mention it he would more than likely think you were spying on him and run.
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Registered: 08-16-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:38pm

Hey ivosoh! I'm in cincy as well, actually Northern Kentucky. Glad to see a neighbor on the boards! I think libraclass is right, if you haven't talked about exclusivity then you guys have a right to be dating others. I would just take it day by day and see what comes of it. After awhile, when you feel comfortable have the exclusivity talk. How long have you been seeing each other? Good luck with both dates tomorrow! You're on fire right now!

Layx2

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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:40pm
There is nothing like a good advice!
Thanks, you are right.
I have been using old for 7mos now and still am trying to figure out all the rules.
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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:45pm
I have been seeing him for 1 week (please don't judge me :) ) and we have been seeing each other every other day.
It's great to know I have a neighbor on this board!
I have a friend who lives in Northern KY.
Let me know if you would like to meet sometime so we can compare notes on the local men :)!
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Registered: 08-16-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Wed, 07-06-2005 - 9:59pm

No judgement at all, trust me! I've been online dating for awhile now, have met over 15 guys and I've had my fair share of experiences. Some jerks, some good guys, some long term relationships. We probably have been winked at by some of the same men! I'm not sure of your age, I'm 26 and get winks or emails by almost every type of guy from the area. How are you finding the selection of guys from the area? Yea, we can always meet up and swap good and bad horror stories! I'm not sure if we are allowed to post our personal email addresses here or not though. We can definitely chat!

Layx2

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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 10:16am
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I am almost sure of that!
I am 35 and I get hit by guys anywhere from 25 to early 40's. A little while ago I went out with a 27 yo guy for a couple of month.
my e-mail is ***. I will delete this from this board once you e-mail me.
This should be fun :) We can compare our notes. Hey, maybe we went out with the same men :)


Edited 7/7/2005 11:12 am ET ET by ivos2004
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In reply to: ivosoh
Thu, 07-07-2005 - 10:51am
Ivos, you have mail! :)