Ok, 1st meet Thurs nite with a seperated

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Ok, 1st meet Thurs nite with a seperated
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Thu, 08-03-2006 - 1:21am

guy. I know many of your opinions are he is MARRIED.

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Registered: 07-20-2001
Thu, 08-03-2006 - 3:12pm

It is hard for me to be unbiased here as my last guy was not totally divorced from his previous wife when we started seeing each other (but they had not lived together in quite a while). He went back to her due to some "legal issues" that had nothing to do with me. But, I can only warn you that it is probably not wise to see this man if he's claiming separation and especially because he is still living in the same house. That to me, would be a huge reason why he should not be dating at this point in the game.

A true separation, in my mind, is when the 2 parties do NOT live together still. I feel strongly about this because I do not want to see you or any decent woman hurt by such a scenario. The guy may be a jewel, but if he is still living with the woman, then he is not really separated and should make moving out a priority if he wants to date and have his "own" life.