Ok, I don't want to jinx anything...

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Ok, I don't want to jinx anything...
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Sat, 05-06-2006 - 11:56am

...but I had a *really* good first meet last night. I responded to this guy's ad a few days ago on CL due to a shared intered in music and the Red Sox (he just moved here from the Boston area, near where I grew up) and we talked on the phone yesterday afternoon and decided to meet kind of spur of the moment before my choir's dress rehearsal last night. I don't know...I just have a very good feeling about him. We are seeing each other again tonight for a late dinner after my concert tonight.

I have another first meet this afternoon that I'm now less enthusiastic about but I know better than to put all my eggs in one basket this early on.

Who knows how this will turn out but it's nice to have the butterflies AND know that the interest is mutual ;-).

Sheri

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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 5:27am

Whoa. He sounds needy & overwhelming. I think youre right to step back. Yikes! 2 dates & youre a couple???


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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 10:56am

I disagree.

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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 12:07pm

Great post Vexer and I agree with it all!

 
 
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 1:07pm
i agree w/ vexer too as i said in my previous post she should talk to him about taking it slow if he respects that then that's a good sign. ifhe pushes it, then he is crossing a boundary and to me that would be the red flag not that he's interested in moving ahead w/ the dating.
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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 2:13pm

Eh, I dont know. I totally see what you are saying, but its more of her wording of the situation that struck me.


I think that ANYone here or any of my freinds IRL,

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Tue, 05-09-2006 - 9:02pm

He *is* overwhelming...but somehow, not in a needy way ;-). It's hard to describe...I've really never met anyone quite like him. He's so upfront, so direct in his questions and what he asks me and shares with me...I'm just not sure what to make of it.

Time will tell! But I'm definitely not planning on committing to exclusivity right away, don't worry ;-).

Sheri

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Wed, 05-10-2006 - 1:05pm

So the good news is, you're going to give him another shot?

 
 

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