OK Ladies now I understand!

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OK Ladies now I understand!
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Sat, 08-12-2006 - 11:10am

Desperation is not attractive.

heather 5-18-10
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Sat, 08-12-2006 - 1:16pm

He sounds needy which is never attractive especially early on.

Avatar Image"The Small Peanu
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Registered: 05-19-2005
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 10:47am

While I like the idea of boy chases girl, there is definitely something to be said for showing interest and being a pest. We do have lives outside of our dating circle...

On that note, I hope your guy learns to "chill" down a bit. Gee, can't say I've experienced that sort of enthusiasm from the opposite sex since I was in my late teens...and that turned into a stalking situation!

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Registered: 08-16-2005
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 11:49am

This happens to men all the time, I read posts of women doing this and they say "I know he has his phone on him why won't he answer me" and I just cringe thinking, well maybe he's in the crapper or he's with a business associate or in a movie and CAN'T.

I can't imagine how these women would have dated before technology, can you imagine them dating in the 80's before every house had an answering machine, before people had cell phones or call waiting even, oh my gosh were they just going out of their mind??? LOL

Good grief, nothing worse than a desperate needy person and you are better than me, I WOULD have nexted him. That annoys me to no end when someone is up my butt.

Smile,

Deirdre

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Registered: 03-16-2006
Sun, 08-13-2006 - 12:07pm

LOL - I know.

heather 5-18-10