Ok, like REALLY now? Is he serious?

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Registered: 03-04-2007
Ok, like REALLY now? Is he serious?
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Sun, 01-03-2010 - 9:46pm

I emailed with this guy only 3 x.

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Registered: 12-26-2009
Sun, 01-17-2010 - 11:45pm

i think texting as the start of communication is so passive aggressive! almost like he's not even going to put a real effort into it from the beginning...which is probably why he's trolling internet dating sites. it's one thing to utilize texting with friends and established SO's as a quick way to touch base during the day, but quite another to make initial contact (outside email) and/or set up dates, etc. He's putting the ball in your court and that's a sign of future laziness-sorry to be so cut and dry, ladies, but I think 9 times out of 10 this is true!! I'm sure one of you has a success story out there where your guy sent you a text and you called or text back and now you're skipping off into the sunset, but the rest of us, if completely honest, would say that if we're recieving texts from the start, we're the one's making the efforts from there on out.

Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you!

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Wed, 01-20-2010 - 11:35pm

Just say "No!" to textual relationships, ladies!! Be strong! LOL


You're singing my song Dawn. Because how can you have a conversation of value and real context when you're typing in shorthand with a character limit?


Texting is a cop out for lazy daters. It's a way to remain aloof, anonymous and non commital in early dating relationships.


Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.          &nb

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Registered: 12-26-2009
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 10:04am
Just in the beginning of a relationship??

Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you!

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Registered: 12-02-2009
Thu, 01-21-2010 - 12:14pm

Someone tried to have a relationship with me via text. He didn't want to talk by phone apparently--just kept saying he would call, and then texting.


I ignored him. I think he must have been married.


Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.

Your final reward will be heartaches and tears if you’ve cheated the man in the glass.          &nb

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