Okay, I know what you will say...m

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Okay, I know what you will say...m
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Fri, 09-30-2005 - 9:21pm
....but I gotta ask....
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Edited 10/4/2005 8:20 pm ET ET by saralm
 

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Fri, 09-30-2005 - 9:44pm
are you on bbwdating.com??? If so I have a membership I can email him for you, tell him your screenname and your regular email address if you want.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 09-30-2005 - 10:00pm

Thanks so much. Unfortunately, it is different site. :(

 
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Registered: 09-04-2005
Fri, 09-30-2005 - 10:01pm
Sara - This is just my two cents but, I think that if he's not even willing to pay for a 1 month membership in order to pursue you then I'm afraid he's just not that into you. Keep looking - there's a great guy out there somewhere who will be willing to go to the ends of the earth to date you. This guy just isn't the one... Debbie
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Fri, 09-30-2005 - 10:26pm
Yeah, we both keep doing these stupid ice breakers. It's silly and I am done. I will just have to hope he decides to do it. Thanks, Debbie.
 
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 7:56am
Well debbie the same could be said for her.
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Registered: 09-04-2005
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 11:55am
Yes, BUT I think that, as the man, he should be pursuing her and not the other way around. If he was that into her he would pay for the membership and email her. The fact that he's not willing to go to the effort or expense tells me that he's probably not going to go to much effort in a relationship either. I truely believe that men like to be the pursuer - not the other way around. Besides, she deserves someone who is dying to get to know her better - which this guy obviously isn't. Just my opinion....
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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 12:13pm

If you aren't willing to pay for an online dating service why should he??? Maybe he's thinking the same thing, that if she's not willing to pay she might not be serious. Online is just a way to meet someone, both partners have to put in an effort, if neither are willing to pay and both sit back and say the other should pay to contact me, then my guess is they'll both be here a year later still waiting.

If a guy winks at me, I email him and say Hi if I'm interested, if I'm not willing to step up to the plate than I can't get in the game.




Edited 10/1/2005 12:18 pm ET ET by sniffle_sally
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 12:17pm

Yes, you should forget it, but not because he won't buy the subscription.

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Sat, 10-01-2005 - 12:19pm
Exactly.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sat, 10-01-2005 - 2:18pm
To all of you....Thanks....
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Edited 10/4/2005 8:22 pm ET ET by saralm
 

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