OLD news - update

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Registered: 02-15-2005
OLD news - update
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Wed, 08-24-2005 - 1:34pm

Hello everyone, I have an update to tell - it is something like that saying "when it rains it pours", I have my dry periods when I don't have anyone and now I have all of these guys running in my parade.

I had a nice first date last night, we met for a drink, he seemed impressed and told me he liked me, the place was closing but he still wanted to extend the time with me. He told me he plays the guitar as a hobby so I suggested he play it for me, since it was late I told him to play it in his car. So we went to his car and he played and sang few songs for me. I thougth that was very thoughtful and romantic, I am attracted to him, so we kissed and talked in his car for a while. At the end of the date, he asked me for another date next week, so I told him to call me in advance to set it up. He's suggesting a very nice restaurant up the hills where you can see the city, so romantic. I am not holding my breath, since it's only one date, and this is a guy that I've talked to before and was unable to meet in the past until last night... this is a reappearing act -

I have another first date for Friday, another ghost reappearing, we were not able to meet before until now, we'll see how it goes. He's an actor,(small roles in movies), nice goodlooking and from my same background, so we have some things in common, I'll let you know how it goes.

And I still communicate with guys #1 and #2 (have had 4 dates with each) occasionally, they seem interested but not that interested, sigh! I like constant communication and these guys only call me like every three days or so, one was out on vacation this weekend, and the other one is still filming his movie, he called me last Sunday and said we will set up something for this week, it's Wednesday and haven't heard from him.

Then there is this guy I met two weeks ago, we were supposed to go out again this last Saturday, but he did not want to meet because I was going with my friends and he would not feel confortable with them. Another loser, I guess.

So I am still tyring to stack'em up and keep testing them to see which one will stay for the long run and it really helps to be talking to many men that way I won't get hung up with one... eventhough my mind sometimes tends to wander towards my guy #1 awww!

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 3:51pm

Sounds very good. :) I am a little envious. But my day will come. ??? LOL

Sara

 
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Registered: 02-15-2005
Wed, 08-24-2005 - 4:34pm

What has been your story with OLD so far? You should start stacking them too, I sometimes wink, send a smile, icebreaker whatever to put me on the spot and I update my profile often so it shows more, try that and maybe you will get more contacts.

Good luck :o)

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Registered: 11-09-2003
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 3:57pm
When you said he started playing guitar and singing songs to you that reminded me of Charles Manson. Watch out! You never know when those hillbillies are going to get violent and bug out!
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Registered: 03-18-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 6:44pm

He told me he plays the guitar as a hobby so I suggested he play it for me, since it was late I told him to play it in his car.

SHE SUGGESTED and it was romantic - just because one person had a similar interest does not make them a serial killer, LOL.

SP

 
 
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Registered: 02-15-2005
Fri, 08-26-2005 - 8:01pm
Thanks SP, I thought it was funny how she said it that way, a serial killer? He did not fit that profile, I think I would rely on my sixth sense or I would not even risk going out with him in the first place!! Thanks for your posts, and I'm still not holding my breath since Tuesday's first date, I haven't heard from him again, but he works nights so maybe he's busy. But I am going out tonite with guy #2, the one in the works...;)