OMG!!

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Registered: 01-31-2004
OMG!!
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Sat, 02-26-2005 - 6:07pm
I can't believe what I did today..
Last weekend my son and I were at this bike shop looking for a bike rack. There was this HOT looking guy working there who helped me out with that. HE wasn't overly talkative but was very helpful. Today I went to the same bike shop to adjust breaks on my son's bike. There was that same guy and he looked as hot as I remember him last time. Whenever he said something I was so flustered and shy that I could only mumble out a few words. I had major butterflies in the pit of my stomach. He said that he remembered me and asked have I used the bike rack yet? After he was done with the bike he asked if I need help with loading the bike in the car and I said "NO THANKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!" As I was walking to my car I felt like kicking myself, I was so mad and nervous and I really felt like there was something going on between us. I drove off and after some thoughts - I pulled over and called the shop and talked to the guy. I asked if he had a girlfriend and he said that he didn't and I asked him if he would like to go out sometime and he said "YES!!!!" And I said "really?" and he said "sure". I gave him my phone number and said he can call me sometime. I also said that he doesn't need to feel obliged if he doesn't want to. Now I am wondering if he thinks I am strange.. I really like this guy, I don't know how old he is, how much money he makes and the funny thing is - it doesn't matter! I haven't felt this way in soo long. If you were him - what would you think of a girl like me who asked him out? Is it strange?

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Registered: 10-26-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Sat, 02-26-2005 - 10:54pm

Hi Ivos,

He must have thought you were pretty cool, but having kids, he prob thought you were married; I am sure you get the "well, I would have thought a girl like you was attached..."!

Whichever way it happened, you have guts and that leads to Glory--and you already know he is good at adjusting things--aiight! Like they said, go on about your life, and try to drop it down on the list and one day, when you least expect it, he Will call. I Swear, if I chuck it all and head for the gym to work off my stress, I come back to my car to missed calls Just like that!

Great way to start a good week!

Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 08-19-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 8:52am
That is so awesome! How many times I have regretted not putting myself out there like that! I hope he calls, but even if he doesn't, you did a brave thing and should be proud.
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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 11:31am
Well, I am thinking now that he might be a bit younger than me. How young is tooyoung. I am 35. I can’t tell how old he is.. He has that "boyish" look that I find so irresistible but I couldn't tell - all I knew my knees were weak.
Or better yet - what if he is gay :) Why a beautiful man such he is doesn't have a girlfriend? Maybe he is not into girls but didn't want to disappoint me?
Ahhh, better stop thinking of this and just relax. I am such a spaz!



Edited 2/27/2005 2:01 pm ET ET by ivos2004
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Registered: 11-18-2003
In reply to: ivos2004
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 1:17pm

You're not a "spas". You're a "spaz". .


Stop thinking so much! As the others have said, kudos to you for having the ballz to ask him out. I don't think that I would ever have the nerve to do what you did. Even if he doesn't call, it's still great that you asked.


As for how young is too young? Who knows? I'll be 35 next month and for the last few weeks I've been crushing on a guy I know is way, way

 

 

 

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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Sun, 02-27-2005 - 2:03pm

Thanks for the spell check. English isn’t my native language. I am learning stuff every day :)

spaz-girl :)




Edited 2/27/2005 2:05 pm ET ET by ivos2004
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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Wed, 03-16-2005 - 9:41pm
this is to bump the OMG #1.
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Registered: 07-21-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 10:12am
Woo-hoo, jh!

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Registered: 03-05-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 1:46pm

You know age is number. If you

Michele
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Registered: 01-31-2004
In reply to: ivos2004
Thu, 03-17-2005 - 7:40pm
He did call :) We are going out tomorrow!

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