OMG!!!!!

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Registered: 09-15-2003
OMG!!!!!
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Tue, 02-15-2005 - 4:59pm

Ok, I just got the most insane email and I have to share with someone. I figure you guys will appreciate this one.

Last year I was emailing with a guy from match.com and I thought he might be a player, so I let the contacts dwindle down. Well I'm back on match again and figured I'd wink at him to stike up a conversation and go from there. I SHOULD HAVE REMEMBERED MY ORIGINAL GUT FEELINGS ABOUT THIS ONE!

We spoke on the phone this morning for about 5-10 minutes. He asked me about a picture I used to have posted that I took down. I couldn't find it anymore, so I sent a simliar one. Well I opened up his email response and was SHOCKED!!!!!

Two HUGE half naked pictures of himself. One with a shirt on and nothing down below but some "excitement". And another of him showing me what he looks like in the middle of an orgasm. (Can i say all that here? )First off, WHY WHY WHY would you send pictures like this WITH your face to someone you don't know. Second, he co-hosts a weekend radio show in my area and I have a feeling some people would be shocked by these pictures- if you are a bigwig in your professional area WHY WHY WHY would you send these pictures. It's obvious someone else had to take these pictures too- so it's like these are part of a performance he sends out to women.

Part of me is shocked and the other part can't stop laughing.

But I had to share!!

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Avatar for northwestwanderer
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 5:32pm

Gross!!! That's disgusting! I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

I hope you reported him to match!

Sheri

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Registered: 05-31-2003
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 5:47pm

OK, I ceremoniously hand the crown over to you for the worst OLD email. Congratulations!!!

I agree with Sheri. Did you report him? If not, you should.

ABM

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Registered: 08-08-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:29pm

OMG is right!!!! Well, it goes to show you that some people have absolutely no shame...frightening!

Robyn

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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 6:59pm
Geez. Why don't I every get those emails?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 7:07pm
wow! the worst I've ever had was a picture of a guy with a dead deer...
Actually a guy from match that I was IM'ing on Yahoo last year had a webcam and in the middle of a conversation (non-sexual) told me to take a look....then the camera came on the screen and ...let's just say he was "busying himself"!!! At first I laughed then I shut him down. Unbelievable!
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Registered: 07-31-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:07pm

That's exactly why I hate webcams.

Lisa

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Registered: 02-02-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Tue, 02-15-2005 - 9:16pm

GROSS GROSS GROSS

Where do these people come from!!!

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Registered: 12-10-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 12:51am

Yikes. That's an email you don't need to respond to.

But I dunno... I'd be sorely tempted to print those pics out on some flyers and head down to the radio station's parking lot, and tuck 'em under some windshield wipers.

Guys like that... sigh. They give OLD such a bad name. Heck, they give males in general a bad name.

Personally, I wait until at LEAST the second date before I send out the orgasm pictures.

(LG, I'll make an exception in your case since you want one- what's the email addy?)

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Registered: 07-24-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 1:23am
OMG is right!!! I have had something like that happen in chat before. Just having a normal conversation where u from, what do u do, blah blah. I say do you have a pic and they say well I have a cam and then BOOM it is something naked and not their head. I think it is totally unacceptable to send something like that without asking or telling what it is first. That is plain rude and if you open it up and kids are around not knowing it is XXX that is horrible. No respect!!
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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: calilawgirl
Wed, 02-16-2005 - 6:53am
I think this is a big reason why in several messages people have expressed unwillingness to chat with guys. It seems to deteriorate to "what are you wearing", "I'm typing one handed" or "hey, take a look at this"..

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