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Registered: 04-17-2003
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Tue, 08-05-2003 - 11:57pm
Hi, i was absent yesterday from the board busy cleaning and repainting my work place, and when i came online this morning...wow oh boy oh boy!...Heated arguments showed up. Arguments are definitely 'healthy' and welcome in any board. We all come to this board to share stories, seek advice, learn, laugh, argue a lil and most especially to have each other's support. What i wanted to say is that we should not 'judge' anybody or hurt any one's feelings because we really don't know each other personally and we all don't know all the details about each other's situations. We cannot oblige any one not to do this or do this coz we all have our minds to decide for ourselves. We can only accept others advice but in the end it's our own choice, if they disagree with what we have done it's their opinion, they can say they disagree blah blah blah but not to the point that we hurt someone's feelings.

I think this is a great board that we all love and we should keep it that way. Just my two cents i hope i make sense. good day :)

~jen

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 8:55am
Thank You Jen, for sharing your opinion with us and suggestions. We are happy, loving people here. All friends and when we disagree, we all know how to move on. It is not a big deal really. All water under the bridge now. Thanks so much for being concerned though and we missed you, by the way. How was Joe's trip with his son??? Did you two catch up and how is your shop?? Come on, give us the scoop!


Gail:)

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 4:23pm
I totally agree with you. When it comes to matters of women's safety from rape and violence I feel it is my duty to voice my concern - not my opinion - over any condoning of drastically unsafe behavior.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 08-06-2003 - 7:16pm
Totally agree with you, Deena.
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Registered: 04-17-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 5:34am
Hi Gail, thanks for asking.

Joe came back Mon. evenin around 12 midnight and Tues 12 noon for me. He immediately called me when he came home and we talked for few mins. only online coz i know he is really tired from 5-hr. drive back home. He had a very good rest, and his son had a blast. They went fishin and really enjoyed it so much. He said he has cleared his mind off work and was able to focus on some good positive things. But unlucky for him he lost his black bag containing his digi cam, money and razor. Missed him but he is already back and i'm a happy happy girl..though we had a lil misunderstanding last night, i honestly tell him how i feel about certain situations, but we're ok now.

~jen :P

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Thu, 08-07-2003 - 11:55am
Good to know Jen. Keep up that communication and things will work out fine!!!! hugs!


Gail:)