Online Dating Sucks!
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Online Dating Sucks!
| Wed, 05-04-2005 - 7:52pm |
Help me out on this one guys......
I've been trying this online dating thing. In the last month I've met five guys online and each time the same thing has happened to me. They contact me first. They say I'm nice looking after seeing my current picture. They say my profile is interesting. We exchange e-mails for about a week until THEY ask if I'd like to talk on the phone. I give them my number and we have several nice phone conversations before THEY ask me if I'd be interested in meeting. We agree when and where to meet but on the day of the meeting THEY either call and cancel or stand me up. After five times I really don't understand what is going on or what I'm doing wrong? Please advise!!!

Wow, that's a run of bad luck, for sure! I've been doing OLD for years and have only been stood up once...so I'm sorry to hear you've had it happen to you so many times!
I did have a period of my life, though, when it seemed like every guy I met turned into a "disappearing man"...and I'm talking after a bunch of dates, not 1 or 2. They would just stop calling, and stop returning calls. I think it was at least five men in a row who did that, and it sure wasn't fun.
But, being the eternal optimist that I am, I kept going. I've actually met some nice guys online, including a few I've had r'ships with (that ended for various reasons).
I think you just got a run of flakes, as it doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong (except maybe emailing and talking on the phone for so long before meeting...I personally like to cut to the chase sooner). Hang in there!
Sheri
Edited 5/4/2005 11:04 pm ET ET by northwestwanderer
Wow, that is really a bad streak you have going!
Ginger and NWW, I now agree with you that you should meet sooner than later. I wish I had've met the guy I did way earlier than I did. I know I wouldn't be hurting as bad now if I did. Smileann, I hope you have some luck with this soon.