Online Dating is too much work!
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Online Dating is too much work!
| Wed, 11-08-2006 - 12:18am |
Is it me or does it feel like WORK and it takes so much time? I'm really getting tired with screening profiles and going through emails and then messaging with perfect strangers...to find out I'm totally bored with the conversations and then to feel nothing...I'm not excited...and yet if I don't do it I can't meet anyone in real life because I don't go out enough to meet people....or the only people I meet are people I work with and I've done my share of dating co-workers that turned disastorous....and to top it off I'm not getting younger and so I hear my Darn clock TICKING TICKING away...Sorry about the venting...Anyone feel this way???
Tea

Hang in there (that's what I keep telling myself)
I'm trying out CL right now too....I'm getting alot of responses too...although there's quite a bit of good looking guys that responded to my ad....I'm finding it hard to sift through it all and still feeling unexcited about it....I don't know what's wrong with me...
I actually had a coffee meet tonight with a guy I met from yahoo personal but we ended up not connecting because I told him to meet me at the wrong location. I completely forgot which location I told him to meet me at until I got back to reread the message history. We never exchanged phone number because I told him to email me if plans changed....because I'm leery with giving out my cell number in case I don't like what I see in person I don't want him to call me after the meet...so when I got back I logged on line to appologized...he signed on about 2 hours later and forgave me...and we resett the date to Friday and he gave me his cell #...but to be honest...i don't even care if it works out or not...because I'm finding very hard to feel anything with these guys I meet from the internet. I haven't been doing this for too long or dated enough to feel burnout..so I'm wondering why I'm not as excited as some you are on here...I want to feel something but absolute NADA!!
Tea