Where does he live that in 10 years he hasn't yet been able to meet you? I'm I understanding you correctly that you searched and found his phone number rather than him giving it to you?
I don't know if you're for real, honestly; this sounds kind of far fetched. I've seen your posts on NQE, by the way.
Yes, this is the poster who said she was expecting a proposal from this man she had never met, seen in person, or spoken to.