over but relieved!

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Registered: 03-25-2003
over but relieved!
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Sun, 02-05-2006 - 12:45am

T and I had a chat today and decided to split. We both admitted that we liked each other but we're both not 100%. I feel perfectly fine and in fact quite relieved!!

I feel free once again- a funny feeling. Yes I feel like I've lost something but now I feel like I'm free to date again.

I spoke to D last night as friends and he asked me for my pic. He didn't say anything (re my pic) but we kept chatting. I though what the heck I might give him a shot. So I've put my profile back and sent him a kiss and see what happens.

I'm also thinking about G (the other speed dating guy who I had a one night stand with- I told him that I've met someone else and cancelled out date a few weeks ago). I've been thinking a lot about him recently, do you think I would be a pig to contact him? I'm thinking I should- either we'll meet up or he won't reply, I have nothing to lose!

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sun, 02-05-2006 - 6:44am

Well I'm glad about T, especially since you weren't 100% sure of it all... Good luck with D. As for G,

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 02-05-2006 - 11:49am

Well done with T... it's really important to know when to let go and be okay with it!

Personally I'd be cautious about re-contacting a one-night-stand. It really just depends on what you want. If you are looking for more than just casual sex, you'll need to make that very clear (i.e. tell him that, AND don't sleep with him again for at least a few dates) so he doesn't get the wrong idea. Just something to think about. :)

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Registered: 06-01-2005
Mon, 02-06-2006 - 2:23pm

What you are doing is natural.

CL-Truewild1969

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