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| Fri, 07-15-2005 - 11:48am |
What are your thoughts on this:
Motorcycle guy and I are still talking/emailing/texting - we're into the third week - that's big for me! He volunteers with the rescue squad where he lives and has been on duty 2 nights this week and one night he had a mtg with them and one night he had a mtg with his bike group, so communication this week has been thru emails - no actual phone calls this week. Which I'm not too worried about.
He has made plans for us to go on an overnight motorcycle ride up to PA in mid-August and another one to W.VA in October....but...no plans for anything sooner. Should I suggest something or see what he wants to do? I'm always afraid to 'take the lead' and get rejected. But I don't want to make it a big deal. Shoot, I'm just happy he still wants to see me!! :-)
Motorcycle guy and I are still talking/emailing/texting - we're into the third week - that's big for me! He volunteers with the rescue squad where he lives and has been on duty 2 nights this week and one night he had a mtg with them and one night he had a mtg with his bike group, so communication this week has been thru emails - no actual phone calls this week. Which I'm not too worried about.
He has made plans for us to go on an overnight motorcycle ride up to PA in mid-August and another one to W.VA in October....but...no plans for anything sooner. Should I suggest something or see what he wants to do? I'm always afraid to 'take the lead' and get rejected. But I don't want to make it a big deal. Shoot, I'm just happy he still wants to see me!! :-)

He didn't mention any weekend plans since he was busy? *A* was moving all week so we decided last Saturday on this Saturday ;-).
Maybe shoot him an email to say "hi" and that you were thinking of him and hoping to see him soon (especially since you have other future plans). I know you prefer he take the lead but it's the weekend, you love hanging out with him it's only natural. You don't suspect he assumes you two are on for the weekend do you?
Let us know what happens!!! Week two for me so I hear ya, ha!
SP
Yes, what types of things do you enjoy doing? Invite him to something you enjoy!!
He definitely has set up future plans and that's a good thing. Go for it!!!
That's an even better sign - you already have plans otherwise you'd be doing something with him.
Yes, suggest something next weekend aka sporting event, concert, picnic - whatever you two enjoy doing. Heck, even make him a romantic meal and get a block buster - that sounds nice and quality time.
SP
okay, now I'm being paraniod. This is what he just sent me when I asked about getting together:
"..As for seeing me sooner, that depends on schedules. I will put together a schedule of events for the next month and send it to you sometime this weekend. I would like to get over your way again, but will work around family issues."...
does that sound like I'm just a friend to go on bike trips with??
overanalyzing..........overanalyzing.........overanalyzing..........
I think you need to ask yourself what do you want?
CL-Truewild1969
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He, he. Had to laugh - you're such a scorpio - all or nothing. Love me or leave me - none of this wishy washing business, LOL
Must be Friday - feeling silly, ha!
SP