I met this amazing guy on american singles. Weve been talking for over a month and we have a really strong connection. He is a total sweetheart and we totally mesh. He's been signing his emails "your future husband" and we've been totally in sync. Things couldnt look better right? Well, we might Friday night in person and we had an amazing time. I have never connected like this with someone before, so quickly, it was the perfect date. He called me when he got home that night to thank me for such a wonderful evening. Saturday rolls around and we both had horrendous days. We chatted for a little while and I dont even know what happened but we had a slight argument and he sent me an email about his past relationships and said he just doesnt want to get burned again....that he's been looking for someone like me for so long but he just doesnt know how to be with anyone anymore. I was "sick" with emotion all saturday night and yesterday and we talked a little last night on im and he said he just doesnt think he can have a relationship. i told him that he needs to let go of his fears and just let things flow naturally and i will be patient with him. well, he said to call him last night and i did....he didnt answer his phone...he then called me back at 11 because he was so sorry he had fallen asleep (he owns his own business and had been working all weekend and got 2 hours of sleep) so i said it was OK I wasnt mad at him and that I would talk to him tomorrow. Well, he called me at 6 this morning...i had my cell next to me so i picked it up and he said "i just wanted you to know that since it's raining my day is pretty much shot at work" so if you want to call me i will be around this afternoon to talk.
please help!!! i like this guy so much i need advice. i mean, on one hand he says he is scared and is running away...but if a guy is not interested there is no way that he would call u at night (after missing your call) and again at 6 in the morning.