Is this Pointless?
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|Thu, 05-28-2009 - 7:28am|
I have been chatting with this guy that I met on PlentyofFish for about a month now. I instantly liked him because we both have the same interests and we are both in school-I for my masters and him for his Phd. He's originally from India, and going to school here in the states. We live about 2 hours away, so its also a LD thing too. Well, I added him as a facebook friend and we have been emailing each other everyday and he seems like a pretty decent person.
The problem is, it seems like all he wants to do is chat, he hasn't initiated anything all this time, I don't get it. So, what I did was I put myself out there and initiated a meeting. We both live about 1 hour away from a major city during our chats he mentioned he goes there regularly on the weekends.
I was going to be traveling to that city in the middle of June, so I asked him if he'd like to meet up there since I'd be in town, we could just go out for coffee-something simple, and that it wasn't a date, just more of a 'get to know you thing'.
This was his response: "Hey, I hope you are feeling well now. You are fine!! Actually, I will be moving sometime on the 3rd week of June, hopefully not those 2 days. Will it be OK if I get back to you on this in a couple of weeks? Hope your admission thing is coming along well!!"
Im new to online dating, and it almost seems like maybe he wants a pen pal or something. I don't really know how to take his response and if he's just trying to avoid meeting or something, he has no idea when he'll be moving from his dorm apartment? I dont know, maybe i'm reading too hard into this..