"so he says "are you putting yourself out there?" to meet someone, so I guess I should call him back & say "where exactly should I be putting myself?" besides OLD because I go out and do things, but I never meet any men!"
LOL--I'm feeling the same way these days.
(Actually, I do meet men occasionally, but it never seems to develop into anything)
when I started OLD (a month after ex moved out -- almost married 15 years), I dated about 3 or 4 guys -- then I met dh.
However, I was HIS first (and last, LOL!) OLD date!
We're celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary on June 25. We've been together for almost 5.5 years.
I keep meaning to post to this thread and haven't yet. I met my first BF after my divorce online. We were together for four years. In the end we had both changed a lot and our life goals were just incompatible, so we parted ways and are still friends.
I also met my current BF online in January, and it's been going exceptionally well. Honestly much better than any of my previous relationships.
I also went out with LOTS and LOTS of guys before meeting either of them. If I had not been doing OLD I would not have had any dates, since all of the guys who hit on my in real life have been pretty scuzzy.