Profiles can be soo wrong!

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Profiles can be soo wrong!
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Tue, 12-08-2009 - 7:57am

I emailed a guy about two weeks ago and he emailed me back pretty fast.

His profile was very long, but very charming. We had a lot of the same values and wants in life. Liked a lot of the same things. It was very direct, very charming. A little quirky, but I like that.

He called me, he seemed very nice, funny, smart. We have a similar sense of humor. He told me about his kids, his job, asked me a lot of questions. After having read his profile and talked to him, I was definitely willing to meet.

We met last Monday, he was a little late because he was taking his parents to the airport (how cute). We talked, laughed, it was great...

And then...he starts getting all "hands on". A little bit was cute, but then it started to be too much. He walked me to my car and started getting a little too hands on again. I stopped him and told him he had to 'earn' these things...

Then he decides I'm his 'girl'. He starts to call me every day, but wants phone sex! I NEVER gave any indication that this is something that I am into. I don't even like it. He calls me and goes on and on, very explicitly, so I hung up. He called back, I didn't pick up and he left a message asking what happened. After 20 minutes I called back and explained that he had gone too far, I didn't even know him, if he'd like to get to know ME we could do that, but this is not cool. He chilled a little bit, then I told him good night.

He called a few more times, we played phone tag. Then Sunday night, the same thing...he started in on the explicit talk, I asked him to chill, finally had to hang up on him. He again called back, and I restated the issue. Then he started up again!

He told me he wasn't having much luck on Match...now I know why!!! The guy was married for 18 years...now I think I know why he's divorced!

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 8:11pm
Yes, you have to wait til you're a senior citizen and hang out w/ all the retirees. My uncle met his 2nd wife volunteering in a hospital--she was a volunteer too. So funny when I had to go to my local hospital for some tests, I went to the info desk to see where to go and there were a bunch of senior citizen volunteers there too. Then in my local donut shop, there are a group of senior guys who go there every day to have coffee & chat--they are about 80 and if I sit down, they always talk to me. I feel like asking if they have any single sons! Maybe when you have a lot of time on your hands it's easier to meet people too.
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Registered: 10-06-2004
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 4:47pm
So I guess there is still hope that I may have sex again before I die.



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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 3:41pm
So I guess there is still hope that I may have sex again before I die.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 7:48am

Exactly! I've had the same thought myself.

On a side note, I go absolutely ballistic when someone says to me, "You know, I read just the sweetest article about a 95-year old man and a 98 year-old woman who got married in a nursing home..." Like that's gonna cheer me up.

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 7:41am
Well, damn, I'm already in Florida, I wonder what my problem is? Guess I'm not old enough yet.



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Registered: 10-16-2006
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 10:37pm
Well, damn, I'm already in Florida, I wonder what my problem is? Guess I'm not old enough yet.
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 9:59pm
I have an 82 yr old uncle. He was married to my aunt for over 40 yrs, then she died. Then he met another nice widow and they got "married" in the church, but not legally. They were together for a few years and then she died also. So last year he got a new GF who is about 10 yrs younger than he is. I never knew my uncle was such a ladies' man, although he's a nice guy & not a stick in the mud for his age--he'll still golf & go sailing and dancing. So I guess I have to wait til I retire & then go to Florida for my social life. lol
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 9:10pm
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Registered: 11-12-2009
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 11:02am

When people approach you in such a, well, different way, you wonder what is making them tick.


No, not at all.

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Registered: 10-06-2004
Thu, 12-10-2009 - 7:29pm

So, I am not interested in pursuing this. It's done!


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