profiles vs reality
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| Sun, 06-11-2006 - 1:07pm |
This is kind of a vent thing I guess. But on my profile I put honest answers as I feel its a waste of time and money to put up something that I am really not. I see my ex is back on match with his same profile and I read it now and it is so not him. Likes cuddling on the couch, ha, at first maybe, but then it was like cuddling just for sex, not just to cuddle. An occasional drinker 1 to 2 a week, yeah, I don't think they mean 1 or 2 30 packs per week and a whole bunch of other stuff that women, like myself would think this guy is so sweet and it is all a big line of crap. Espesciallly the line that he is over his ex and ready to move on. Yeah, okay, that is why he never wanted her to see me and is so jealous over her boyfriend.
Anyways, there has to be a few honest guys on there and I am sure there are women on there too that put what they think a man wants to hear. Which is okay, but I guess I would rather not answer a question on there rather then put something on there that I am not. I wonder how many of them just look at the pic and never read the profile?

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Thanks so much for your help. I did join another one after searching for him to make sure he wasn't on it . Sure enough the day after I joined there he was. Its kind of like seeing your ex flirting with other girls. Did have to laugh at his profile on there because miraculousy he has lost 40 pounds and now attends church services weekly plus his hair has changed from salt and pepper to dark brown. But you know, now that I look at other profiles I wonder about them too and if what they say is true. But I am keeping an open mind and eye , where before I had just joined the online dating game, met him and within no time was emailing back and forth , then seeing him exclusively. He is the type of guy that pursues whatever he wants with great vigilance and then when he has it is on to something else. I guess this has taught me a thing or two. So now when I get emails from some men with all these sweet words and constant email I am more skeptical or as one man put it apprehensive. Then the other guys with just regular emails I seem to be more comfortable with. But I learned my lesson the hard way.
Yes the eyes do tell allot I think. I look at my exes profile and I see coldness in his eyes, no sparkle at all, not even a smile. But there are allot of pics of guys like that it seems. And speeking of pics, there sure are allot of really bad ones, I mean if you are going to put a pic out there at least make it look like you put a little effort into it. And how about those guys with their shirts off flexing their muscles lol
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