QOTW.....What would you do????
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|Tue, 05-20-2003 - 2:55pm|
Say you met someone on line. Someone you liked enough to continue contact via internet. You spoke every other day or so and seemed to have several things in common. Now, the new pen pal decides he would like to call you and set up a meeting and to your surprise lives only hours away in the next state. Youo gladly call the number he gives and the conversation seems to be going rather well, so you decide to meet for coffee the next day or so. With only seeing a photo he sent to you via internet, which was to your liking, you are surprised when you go to meet, he has some scarring on his face. Not severe by any means, but rather obvious. It also seems to be new scarring. Possibly after the photo he sent was taken. (Let's say you have only spoken for a few weeks and the photo was a month or so old) Other than the scarring he is a handsome, charming, wonderful person that you have tons in common with. To make it even more fun, he is not only extremely handsome, but smart and funny. Let's just say he is your ideal man, but his scars were not mentioned in the short phone call or any of his emails or messages you exchanged. So, you wait for him to bring it up, but he doesnt. You: a) Try to dodge the topic and hope he eventually explains, or b) mention it politely, or c) tell your own version of what you would do.
Bonus question: Would you be upset that he did not tell you right away? Would you give him a chance or end things right away? (Now, keep in mind everything about this guy is wonderful and he seems perfect other then the scar and not telling you right away)