Question About Driving to Meet Men

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2005
Question About Driving to Meet Men
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Sat, 05-13-2006 - 4:30pm

Hi,
I am currently talking to 2 men and would like to meet them both. The problem is that they both want me to drive to where they live. One lives 1 hour from me and the other 1 and a half hours. I have brought up them coming up my way or meeting me half way, but they both don't seem to want to do that. This really annoys me as I feel like they should at least meet me halfway. Any ideas on how to handle this.

Thanks,
Karalyn

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-03-2006
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 3:28pm

I would not go out to meet them at their place. That would only mean that they have one thing on their mind and that is to get you into bed with them. I would have them meet you half way. Do not even bring them to your area. It is far too soon for them to know what area you live in.

If they are not willing to meet you half way or in a public place, then I would discontinue talking to them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2005
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 5:09pm

Most sites say which city you live in so you can search for people in your area.

 
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-01-2005
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 7:34pm
I don't know, for me it's very important that he knows what area I live in and he knows what area I live in. No point in driving two hours just to go on a date, you know?







iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2005
Wed, 05-31-2006 - 11:59pm

A decent and classy guy will go out of his way to go to where you are, or at least, meet you half way.

Good grief. Some men are such tools.

Consider this a dating flag, and keep your prospects WIDE OPEN.

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