Question for women, what does this mean?

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Registered: 05-18-2010
Question for women, what does this mean?
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Tue, 05-18-2010 - 5:23pm

So I've met a girl and been on one date with her that I met on match.com.


I have an app on my iphone that pretty much has me logged in all the time.

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Registered: 02-23-2010
Thu, 07-15-2010 - 3:25pm

I think after only 1 date that you both should be keeping your options open. I also suggest you not stay logged into Match.com on your phone because you will only drive yourself crazy knowing when she's there or not there. I think that would be borderline stalking and don't you want to be a healthy man for the right woman???

If you didn't discuss being exclusive then she is probably dating other people or still looking....it's not necessarily healthy to tie yourself down after only 1 date.

Good luck!!

S

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Wed, 07-14-2010 - 4:49pm

Dude, the fact that you are logged on to Match 24/7 is as clear to her as her activity is to you. What do you think she thinks of that???

Don't try to speculate. Just date her if you are interested and don't if you arent.

sooooobig
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Registered: 11-14-2005
Tue, 07-13-2010 - 12:56am
I'm not quite sure I understand... why are you concerned about her logging onto the site when you're on there 24/7? You've only gone out once so I wouldn't be concerned at this point.
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Registered: 05-17-2010
Wed, 05-19-2010 - 9:41am

To answer your question, I don't go into exclusive focus when I have only met someone once. That doesn't seem healthy.

Don't look at how often she logs in. Focus on your actual face time with her without that additional component influencing your emotions. If things are to develop between you two, then much more needs to happen between you two than whether or not she is logging in.