Quick! Need phone topics before 9pm!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Quick! Need phone topics before 9pm!
6
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 8:48pm

Having first phone conversation with guy I met on Yahoo Personals yesterday, and I need some quick topics of conversation...

HELP!

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 07-25-2006 - 10:52pm

Sorry! Its too late! Hope it went well. But i WAS glad to see someone ELSE gets freaked out about the 1st phone conversation! lol

Photobucket

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 12:01am

Oh MY GOSH!!!!

::::twirling around dancing on air::::

I just spent over 2 hours on the phone with him, and it was so awesome!! I've never met anyone before that I didn't even know, but could talk to so well. We talked about EVERYTHING under the sun...deep thoughts, funny thoughts, everything.

And before I knew it, he asked me out for this weekend!

Can you hear me squealing right now??? LOL

Avatar for travkitty
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-05-2003
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 6:02am

Don't get your hopes up TOO high. Phone/email chemistry doesn't always translate to real life. Or, something else may come up.

I was having a couple of GREAT convos on the phone with a guy, but then he decided to not date because he found out he had HPV about a week before our first meet. He needed to sort out what this may mean to any physical intimacy that he may have in the future before thinking of dating anyone.

Just stay grounded & have fun on your date.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 5:57pm

I'm glad it went well, but umm, to put this nicely, you have a tendency to float on air really early on because a call or a date went well and then two weeks later everything blows up in your face.

131.gif image by y_baros th5K.gif image by jade_simo

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-26-2006
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 7:39pm
hey, good luck, just be yourself! You will know if you will click or not... have fun!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2006
Wed, 07-26-2006 - 7:51pm

I wish you luck too...but the others are right, it's way too soon to start getting this excited. I understand how great it feels to have a man sound interested in you, but in reality, you don't know him and he doesn't know you.

In my county, we have web access to court records...if your county offers that too then I suggest you search for him out there, and/or state records.

One of the guys I felt the same way about as you...he sounded too good to be true (and we all know what that means)...I looked him up on the court records and discovered that 80% of what he had on his profile, and what he told me on the phone was false.

And with some guys (and gals too), we don't know how they will take rejection once you start seeing them.

We all want you to be happy, and SAFE. Please take it one step at a time.

Katie