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| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 10:08am |
IMO: The following links provide an excellent guide.
http://www.heartlessbitches.com/rants/manipulator/redflaglist.shtml
http://www.womensaccounts.com/dating_a_loser.html
After reading through them do you still find yourself making excuses for the person you are dating? That is another RED FLAG!

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>I really appreciated how the second article wasn't only about men
I'm glad people appreciate them. These articles acknowledge that ANYONE can be a victim. I have been in an emotionally abusive relationship and as a man it is a very difficult thing to admit. Many men are or have been victims of emotional/physical abuse and are probably ashamed to admit it.
I didn't include the following link but it was one of the first ones I found when in my dilemma. The woman I was dating had EVERY trait mentioned with the exception of abusing drugs.
http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive_signs.htm
I agree with everyone in saying that these articles are 100% accurate and should be taken very seriously. It's impossible to explain why you can't see these things until they are pointed out in black & white.
>95% of the people I know are or have done one of them
And THIS is why you are still single! ;-)
I am not sure anybody is totally healthy, I guess! LOL. I hope to find someone who is...but maybe I should be healthy as well! ;) I need time to figure things out. Sending good dating vibes to you, Hal...
Sara :)
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