a RULE? guys online MUST be flakes!?
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| Thu, 02-01-2007 - 2:14am |
*KINDA LONG!*
So I am finally starting to get over my ex who left me a year and 1/2 ago - yes you read me right!
My huge concern was that no one would ever compare to him and boy was I right!
New school, new house, new job and nothing. I went online as I often do and here is what I found :
Harrison : we talk online, he acts like he's the $hit, we go on a date, he's SO SWEET, he acts like he doesnt want the date to end, we talk online and everytime wedo, he acts like he's amazing. I call him, he's acting like he's too important to talk to me, I hang up, he calls back later leaving a msg asking if I'm ok and he wants to see me, I call back saying no then felt bad later (like an idiot!) and emailed him, he never replied.
Brian : we talk on msn for about a week, he acts enthralled with me, never asks me out. I mention meeting up after 2 wks or so and he says he's "feeling it out"?? Then everytime I msg him after that (like 3 x in 2 wks) he replies an hr later with " sorry I missed you, Im off to bed" I finally replied last nite with " seems like you're always off to bed so nice meeting you but now we never have to talk again!"
Spence: really cute, smart, etc and we only talked thru emails. He asked me out in dec and i was away on vacation so I wrote back saying we'd have to raincheck. I wrote him a few nights ago and said " did you still want to meet up?" he said " sure! im wide open this week- you pick the day and time" I wrote back saying " is sunday at 4 good for you?" It's been 3 days and he hasn't written back (when usally he writes back the same night)
Billy: writes me saying how much he likes my post etc etc, we send 2 or 3 emails, then I sent a second photo and no reply...I saw his myspace tonight and he has a gf.
I just don't get it. I've dated LOTSSSS of guys before but since my ex it seems like Im a magnet for losers. And I know I'm not giving off that " get away from me"vibe cos I have done that before and this isnt it. I guess I'm just venting. Can anyone relate??

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I am sorry you understood that I said you did not give guys a chance. My observation was that it seems you compare someone who left you to those who you consider as flakes.
Have a good one as well Elle.
Mark
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