Scared!! What should I do?

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Registered: 07-15-2004
Scared!! What should I do?
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 1:08pm
I met a guy on match and we exchanged e-mails for 1 ½ weeks and then exchanged numbers.
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Registered: 02-10-2004
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 1:50pm

He's p*ssed because you rejected him, but that doesn't mean he's going to start stalking you. Most likely, he said his piece when he left the nasty message and that will be it. Did he seem like the stalker type to you?

I wouldn't block him, I would be more interested to know whether he was checking out your page.. But that's just me.

I wouldn't worry unless he keeps communicating with you.


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Registered: 11-23-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 2:33pm
Yes block him and don't answer any more messages from him.
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Registered: 04-27-2006
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 10:53pm

I agree. I wouldn't block him yet either. I would want to know if he's still viewing me or if he's moving on.

To the OP, I understand you're feeling creeped out by him. Most likely he will move on. Keep up with the No Contact, even if he contacts you - ignore him. Also, don't view his profile, cause that's a form of contact.

Good luck,

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Registered: 11-20-2009
Mon, 11-23-2009 - 11:24pm


wow. That is scary. I had a similar experience a few months ago. Luckily, after the guy said his piece (one nasty e-mail that I didn't respond to), I never heard from him again.

My advice? Keep the text and the e-mails for your records. I think I would block him if he continues to view your profile after a reasonable amount of time--and only you can determine what's reasonable.

And I know that it's easy to let our guard down when we meet a nice person, but


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