It is a hard thing to deal with, but as Sheri said you are on there also right? Maybe he could be reading your profile again or looking at your pics again, he may not be searching - yet we all have to keep searching so we don't get emotionally invested before we find out of it will work or not with one person. Yep, it's how this venue works, unfortunately....
Good luck to you with this guy, but keep searching...
Wow, third meet/date and he has NEVER called you on the phone. Now that's a first! I don't know too many men who prefer that line of communication for the long-term. I would definitely ask him about the telephone on this date. Maybe he doesn't have a phone or just being cautious, but you DEFINITELY need to ask. You don't even have his work number??
I'm not trying to sound discouraging, and you are heading towards a third date, but be very AWARE! Lil red flag to me, but if he is only seeing you during work hours and/or during the week only then it becomes a huge RED FLAG. Man is married or has a live-in partner.
If you guys continue to date (without the phone) be sure it is HIS place you visit first instead of yours -- if the relationship goes there!!!
Do you have a card? On your date providing it goes well and he says he wants to see you again - say great, Wednesday works for me - here's my card with my number - after 8 in the evenings (before 10:00) are the best times to reach me. We'll talk early next week to set it up - looking forward to your call. Just put the ball in his court, ha! That's what I'd do.
Oh and you've only gone out 2 or 3 times - until you have the "lets be exclusive talk" he has every right to be on line. I went out with flower boy 3 times, I'm still on line and so is he - it's just the way OLD works. But if you continue to get a long then I'm sure if it's meant to be you'll have the talk and take down those silly add's - that's the end goal!
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Hi Sparkle,
It is a hard thing to deal with, but as Sheri said you are on there also right? Maybe he could be reading your profile again or looking at your pics again, he may not be searching - yet we all have to keep searching so we don't get emotionally invested before we find out of it will work or not with one person. Yep, it's how this venue works, unfortunately....
Good luck to you with this guy, but keep searching...
Sunshine
Wow, third meet/date and he has NEVER called you on the phone. Now that's a first! I don't know too many men who prefer that line of communication for the long-term. I would definitely ask him about the telephone on this date. Maybe he doesn't have a phone or just being cautious, but you DEFINITELY need to ask. You don't even have his work number??
I'm not trying to sound discouraging, and you are heading towards a third date, but be very AWARE! Lil red flag to me, but if he is only seeing you during work hours and/or during the week only then it becomes a huge RED FLAG. Man is married or has a live-in partner.
If you guys continue to date (without the phone) be sure it is HIS place you visit first instead of yours -- if the relationship goes there!!!
Do you have a card? On your date providing it goes well and he says he wants to see you again - say great, Wednesday works for me - here's my card with my number - after 8 in the evenings (before 10:00) are the best times to reach me. We'll talk early next week to set it up - looking forward to your call. Just put the ball in his court, ha! That's what I'd do.
Oh and you've only gone out 2 or 3 times - until you have the "lets be exclusive talk" he has every right to be on line. I went out with flower boy 3 times, I'm still on line and so is he - it's just the way OLD works. But if you continue to get a long then I'm sure if it's meant to be you'll have the talk and take down those silly add's - that's the end goal!
Cheers,
SP
Happy Friday!!!!
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