Seeing an OLD date/interest "Online Now" on site... does it bother you?
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|Thu, 09-05-2013 - 3:53pm|
Yeah, I know this might sound insecure, but is it just me or do others feel this way?
You start talking with someone, you start talking over the phone and texting, the vibe seems good.
Then for whatever reason, in whatever way (even though you might not actually sign in), you see your "interest" actively logged in online at the dating site (I.E. "Online Now").
Now I know it might seem hypocritical, and even though no commitment is made, it bothers me they are still "looking". I know they have every right to, but it still seems to sting, esp. if I have somewhat of a stong feeling for them in whatever stage of the OLD process we are in.
Am I crazy and the only one who feels like this at times, or are there others like me? Any recommendations on how to get over it?
I know, I probably sound like a huge tool, but I asked my friend who is OLDing as well and she is in the same predicament as me.