Sent the dreaded email
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| Tue, 04-18-2006 - 11:13am |
I sent my online friend an email this morning letting him know that I need some time to regroup. Not sure if I am going back to chatting but it won't be full time like it has been. He has begun to call me at work and talk away and that is just not good. (I know I should never have given him my work number but he had a stressful week a few weeks ago and I gave it to him just in case he needed to talk) Funny thing is he didn't use it then but now uses it everyday. I think he suspected amongst my hinting that I was unhappy with the whole situation.
I feel good about what I said and was completely honest with him. I am not sure at what point I will return to him but there is nothing wrong with being friends with him and chatting on occasion.
Thanks for all the help. W is doing good and I gave him a little present on his desk this morning and he hasn't come in yet so I don't know how he's going to like it but it was just a little toy that I had that I knew he would LOVE!!! We had a great time on Sunday night and I know I am going in the right direction.
Thanks again everyone!!
F

Good for you! It sounds like you did the right thing (being true to yourself- your wants/needs, etc) and handled it like a real pro. I'm sure it feels like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders :)
Enjoy yourself!
Actually I am miserable over this decision. I don't regret it but I miss him more than I thought I would.
Oh well I got myself into this mess.
F