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| Thu, 01-04-2007 - 7:29pm |
Hey y'all!
Ok, I'm cutting to the chase. I "met" this guy through Yahoo! Personals just the other day. After exchanging messages for a few days, I invited him to IM me, so that we could converse in real time. So, I give him my Yahoo! ID, and now I'm able to IM him. Since I can see his profile, I checked it out....I'm not sure if any of you are familiar with what I'm talking about. Anyway, one of his "cool links" (websites he frequents, I guess) is called "Online Booty Call"! I was like WTF!!! And I don't even swear!! Ohmigoodness! Now, don't get me wrong; I'm not so naive as to think that people don't do this kind of thing, and I don't mean to offend any of you if you've done it. I'm not into that kind of thing....and I'd be turned off by someone who is. So, should I even bother to IM him? He may not be into it anymore. I can't question him about it because it's none of my business....what do y'all think??
Ok, I'm cutting to the chase. I "met" this guy through Yahoo! Personals just the other day. After exchanging messages for a few days, I invited him to IM me, so that we could converse in real time. So, I give him my Yahoo! ID, and now I'm able to IM him. Since I can see his profile, I checked it out....I'm not sure if any of you are familiar with what I'm talking about. Anyway, one of his "cool links" (websites he frequents, I guess) is called "Online Booty Call"! I was like WTF!!! And I don't even swear!! Ohmigoodness! Now, don't get me wrong; I'm not so naive as to think that people don't do this kind of thing, and I don't mean to offend any of you if you've done it. I'm not into that kind of thing....and I'd be turned off by someone who is. So, should I even bother to IM him? He may not be into it anymore. I can't question him about it because it's none of my business....what do y'all think??

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Oh, I would definitely "next" him...unless you're just looking for a fling, which I'm assuming you're not.
Sheri
If it makes you uncomfortable, I'd say move on right away. Go with your gut girl!
Maria
I'm not at all interested in a fling! I am disappointed. He seems like a cool guy from his profile (of course, he could be a liar). He's a teacher, he volunteers, is active in his church....and he likes online booty calls!! Which one of these doesn't belong?? LOL! Oh well....
Thanks for your reply.
Hmm, that does seem like a disconnect. Is there any chance that it's a joke site, or that he just thinks it's hilarious and ridiculous that people would actually *do* something like that? I suppose you could ask, "I just have to ask...why does a nice church-going guy like you have onlinebootycall.com (or whatever the URL is) listed as a favorite website?" and see what he says.
Sheri
The link is a valid one; it goes directly to a site called "online bootycall", and it is what it says, a site for people who are looking to "hook up", with no strings attached. Their motto is "finding the 'pieces' without the puzzle." There are even commandments like: "Thou shouldest never ask "can we see each other from now on?" and "Thou shalt get out before the sun rises". Is that insane or what??
Anyway, I'm a bit too weirded out to even ask him about it....
Oh, I hear you on that! I would be weirded out (and turned off) too.
Sheri
I checked the www.onlinebootcall.com and found it to be a metasite for dating sites, i.e. a website that has link to most of the dating sites like Match.com and Singles.net. Now www.onlinebootYcall.com (with a "Y" at the end) is more of a no-strings-attached site.
You or he may have misread/mistyped it.
Mark
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