Setting up the second date

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Registered: 01-20-2010
Setting up the second date
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Sun, 08-25-2013 - 4:44pm

Had a great first date w someone from OLD last night (Sat.) Great convo, good dinner, and she was in no hurry to leave after check came. In fact we took a walk after.

After walking her to her car, i asked what she was up to this week and the coming weekend.  I expressdx that if she was free, I would like to get together again this coming weekend.  She zaid she might be free and to give her a cAll during the week.

A) Is planning a 2nd date for the following weekend too much/too fast?

B) When should i call to ask/plan date #2?

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Registered: 01-20-2010
Sun, 09-01-2013 - 10:53am
UPDATE #2 Ok, I texted her last night to thank her for a good time and arranging the tickets, like to get together again, yada yada.... So far, no response back. I think it's pretty clear she's not interested.
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Registered: 01-20-2010
Sat, 08-31-2013 - 10:31pm
Ok, date #2 was to a local.minor league baseball game. She arranged for the tickets. We met up, go some refreshments and took our seats. Did some small talk, some awkward silences. Conversation and laughter began to flow as the night progressed. I walked her to her car, she said we need to do this again, and we'll talk on Monday. Got very quick hug, got into our cars and parted ways. Puzzled as to if she is really interested in getting yogether again, or if she was nervous, etc. Anyone have thoughts or insight from the mind of a woman as to what this ("we should do this again") really.means? Sincere or blowing smoke and not really interested? Thanks!
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Registered: 01-20-2010
Thu, 08-29-2013 - 4:50pm
Ok, so we spoke on Tuesday and set up a date for this Saturday. I suggested some outdoor activities like boardqalk and amusement patk, or if she had something specfic shed been wanting to fo. She said she'll think of some things and we'd talk again on Thursday (tonight). But Saturday IS planned except for what we are doing. Ill put up an update tomorrow
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 08-25-2013 - 8:12pm

No it's not too fast.  I'd call by the middle of the week (Wed.) at the latest so you can find out if she's free and she won't be waiting around wondering if she should make other plans.  You know so many guys say they will call you & don't that most women don't even know if you mean it.

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Sun, 08-25-2013 - 5:34pm
How sweet! Planning a date for the following weekend is not too fast. Maybe call her tuesday with a couple of specific ideas (not a movie). Good luck!
sooooobig