Sex and Dating..How long should we wait?
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Sex and Dating..How long should we wait?
| Thu, 09-15-2005 - 2:05pm |
There was a thread posted talking about the "common sense" of dating.
| Thu, 09-15-2005 - 2:05pm |
There was a thread posted talking about the "common sense" of dating.
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If you don't know someone well enough to know whether he's honest or not, asking what his expectations are is pointless.
This is the statement of the day – as I said in an earlier thread – do you know how many times a man has said to me “I’m marriage minded, I want to settle down, I’m taking down my ad and only dating you (but doesn’t and uses a lame excuse like his cousin is using it) – men will say what they think you “want to hear” – so take your time to see if the words measure with the actions and that does take time.
Hmmmmm, somewhere in another post I may have written how trusting I am, LOL.
Sheri has echoed my thoughts exactly.
And "certified" exclusivity plays such a big part. We've had the talk and all profiles are down. Period. I've been led down that garden path way too often.
If I'm going to give that part of me it's because I think the man is very special and I want to make sure he feels the same about me...or pretty damn close! LOL
There are times when I think I must have been a guy in a previous life! I don't happen to connect sex with permanency at all. My prerequisites are few -- I have to like him, and he needs to be clean, patient and at least average-sized. Can't find out the last, of course, until it's too late to change my mind. :)
As to the original question, I wouldn't jump into the sack right away, what if it turns out I don't like the guy after all? But I don't have a specific time period that I wait.
It is proving very hard to not use my sexual side.
(Whisper to amjay: shhh, don't tell anyone but you can get a pretty good idea of a guys size without getting naked)
ROFL -- email me and do tell!
amjay
I was hoping you'd use your imagination, lol, but I did email you specifics.
Hilarious. Are you talking shoe and hand size or some move you are going to make! LOL!
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