Sex and Dating..How long should we wait?

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Sex and Dating..How long should we wait?
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Thu, 09-15-2005 - 2:05pm

There was a thread posted talking about the "common sense" of dating.

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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 1:56pm

If you can have sex with someone and not get attached or care if they call you again, then more power to you! I *wish* I could do that (it would make my life SO much easier) but as hard as I try, I just can't. I'm envious of those women who can, frankly.

If OTOH you are like me, then so long as you accept full responsibility for taking the risk that you are going to get hurt, then go for it!

Sheri

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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 3:15pm

Sheri,

I am not sure how I am going to react, but will have to see how it goes. Not saying I won't get hurt. I just know I have some strong needs right now. LOL. But I will try to have "the talk" about what I want out of a/the relationship first.

 
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 4:16pm
Shoe size says nothing... LOL. I was shown that a few times! :)
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 5:42pm
Really? LOL! I guess we may have had different experiences then because I thought it was dead on most of my life...Not one exception I can think of! HMPFT!
 
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 6:16pm
Yep, I always thought it was hands and feet... but I have found something... email me and I'll let ya know. LOL
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 9:48pm

hey if you have such strong needs why not try the rabbit??

LOL jk..

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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 9:53pm
Comes a time when only the real thing will do, I have found out. LOL. ;)
 
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 10:11pm
The real thing or the rabbit? Ask Charlotte from Sex & the City which one she prefers. LOL! :)
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 10:43pm
Well, since we're talking Sex & the City... you don't need the rabbit. As Samantha showed, there are those back rubbers... LOL
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Sun, 09-18-2005 - 12:45pm
LOL! Girls, girls, girls....Sure a rabbit or whatever can make you feel good....but you don't get the eye contact, the touching, the sensualness, the fullness, the deep kisses,- you get the picture...and I know you know! ;) LOL!