The A-Sexual Guy
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| Mon, 10-16-2006 - 2:01pm |
OK, here's a new thread for everyone; we have all encountered lazy men who will make no effort in the dating game. I believe I have encountered, at least once if not twice, men who are not gay by any stretch of the imagination but are quite content to lead a somewhat "hermit" existence with no real significant other in their lives.
The one guy I was after for about 4 years was this way. Same one who finallly told me he did not "need" a woman. A psychic friend of mine was the one who said that he had met very few people who he considered to be "A-sexual", so they are not gay, but they simply do not need the intimate relationships that most ..can I say "normal" people want and crave. Psychic friend is convinced that is what my old guy friend was and is. At one point, quite honestly, it would have been a relief to have found out he was gay, but deep down, I never really believed that. To this date, this guy has not dated hardly at all (I know of one woman he went out with after he and I quit seeing each other and that did not last long either).
I'm afraid I have set my sights on yet another guy of this nature. The guy I gave my phone number to a while back (and acted very interested in me always before). I have reasons to believe now, quite possibly, that he's avoiding me. Not sure on that, but he did not stop today at the restaurant that he and I usually frequent once or twice a week. I saw his truck go by in the parking lot but not pull in, and there was ample parking spaces. I am paranoid in believing that he saw my car and decided to "pass". Could be my imagination for why he did not stop, but that is the way my mind runs. Psychic friend is saying he has some of the same traits as my other guy who simply did not "need a woman". I must say that I "thought" that this new guy was a little more interested than that.
Has anyone else encountered someone you would describe like this? You know for sure that they are not gay, but they act like they are just as happy with no one as they are with someone. Maybe they do not want to risk hurt ever again. I sort of know that feeling, but after so long, loneliness does creep back in.
Stories?

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