Sexy Voice -- Is this a Curse?

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Registered: 05-09-2005
Sexy Voice -- Is this a Curse?
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Fri, 06-17-2005 - 1:21pm

Okay, I'm not sure if other OLD folks have experienced this (mainly women) but when I meet a guy online and then take it to the telephone, most of the men find my voice to be very sexy. Regardless, usually after a few conversations (the initial and then another), I'm propositioned for "phone sex!" Goodness, what is that all about!!

Of course phone sex, is NOT sex (or is it??), but have other women experienced this increase in men wanting to have phone sex??? Have you partaked in phone sex, and then eventually met the guy and did it evolve into anything, or just sex???

Your thoughts???

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 1:44pm

Any mention of sex (phone or otherwise) prior to meeting (or for that matter, on the first couple of dates) gets a prompt NEXT! from me.

I've been told I have a great phone voice so I don't think it's just your voice that is causing this--it's either the guys you're talking to or you're somehow saying or doing things (whether inadvertently or otherwise) that make them think it's ok to proposition you.

Sheri

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Registered: 03-18-2005
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 2:53pm

He, he. Well, you’re future BF will be happy.

 
 
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Registered: 08-30-2004
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 6:50pm

Hey all. I've been frequenting a few of the ivillage message boards for about a year but haven't yet become a paying member (since I don't have internet at home, it seems silly to pay for sporadic use from work). This is my first time on this particular board, but I was just looking around the "village" for new places to chat with people and I landed here!

So anyway, about your post "tstephnic", I used to be a frequent chat room user. When I discovered voice chat capabilities I was in heaven... no more typing out my conversations in order to communicate! However, there was a slight-negative about it... I was always told I had a sexy voice and was either propositioned for cyber-sex (you can apparently do this in private rooms using the voice chat options?) or they would beg for my phone # in order to do phone-sex. I was even told a few times that I should become a "976-Babe" because I'd make a good living at it. Ack! I guess it could be considered flattering but sometimes it was like beating them off (no pun intended) with a stick!

Rhandi

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Registered: 03-12-2005
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 8:12pm
95% of lavalife is looking for phone sex... needless to say I am blocking at least 95% of the contacts...
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Fri, 06-17-2005 - 8:40pm

No! A sexy voice is not a curse... If a man is so bold as to go that far before you guys really know each other, then in my opinion, he's not worth it. Sure, we all are attracted to certain things and can find certain qualities sexy... but there are lines one must respect.


If it were me and they started talking about that, I'd give them a warning (b/c I know I'm a flirt and I could have invited it...). If they don't get the warning, tell them you have a new friend you want to introduce them to... Mr. Dial Tone! :)


Good luck!

Kerry


If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting... -- Les Brown

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Registered: 07-03-2004
Sat, 06-18-2005 - 12:55am

For me, the phone stage of OLD means making plans to meet. Although other people do carry on lengthy conversations. Remember, a lot of people use the online sites to find talk buddies of the opposite sex, and not necessarily to meet in person. They are the sort who will make such a silly "compliment".

I've been told I have a sexy voice, too. However, I hate talking on the phone so much I keep convos short and sweet (hey, like the rest of me!!!).