Is she kidding?

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Registered: 05-15-2004
Is she kidding?
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Thu, 09-29-2005 - 7:53pm

Ok, some of you may remember a woman I contacted on Match, who sent back an email saying she could not deal with me having "erotica" listed on my profile in the turn-ons section. Fair enough. Well, this week I get a wink from - you guessed it - "erotica hater". Does she not remember that she shot me down a couple of months ago?

Anyway, I go ahead and visit her profile, and the main body is way different than what I remember it to be. It just made me shake my head. Here are some of her better thoughts:

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Unfortunately, most of the good single guys have kids or are married to their jobs.

I've been told that I need someone from a much larger city, but for now, I'm stuck here in Amarillo, but I am open to traveling for the right guy.

Several guys that I've dated have told me that I'm intimidating, so if you are shy or cannot handle a challenge, then you should probably hit the "back" button on your computer right now.

Honestly, I'm sick of playing games and would like to find an intelligent, athletic, successful man to settle down with. Ideally, he would own his own business or be high enough within his company to be able to spend time with his family AND support them financially.

Last, but certainly not least, I am looking for a Christian man who puts God first. This means that if you are a fan of "erotica," then don't email me! Sorry guys, but I don't want to have to deal with pornography or wondering if you're at the strip club! For some reason, I have attracted this sort of guy in the past and it has been a huge waste of time. This time around, I want a sweet, simple guy who only wants me!
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So what do you women think? Will she get a lot of hits from this profile? lol...

Eric

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:06pm

Yah, she'll get a lot of "HITS" lol. But more of the "Damn, she's got a chip on her shoulder" type. LOL. Now aren't ya glad we told you to drop her? hehe


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Registered: 09-14-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:17pm
Do you still have erotica as one of your turn ons? I hope you didn't wink back. She sounds like a lot of work.
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Registered: 09-27-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:28pm

Does my opinion as a guy count?

What an arrogant, self centered winch. I wouldn't even give her a chance.

An being stuck in Amarillo isn't an excuse, I actually thing it is sort of a cool town.

Matt.

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Registered: 07-03-2004
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:31pm

"This means that if you are a fan of "erotica," then don't email me! Sorry guys, but I don't want to have to deal with pornography or wondering if you're at the strip club! For some reason, I have attracted this sort of guy in the past and it has been a huge waste of time."

Ouch, Eric! Do you think she was talking about you? ROFL

amjay

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:35pm

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YES!!! Matt, we welcome guys here... we love to have a different perspective and a fresh approach. I know sometimes us ladies can get down on the male species, but personally I love seeing men visit here. And if you ever have an issue and want a woman's viewpoint, trust me... there are more than plenty that would help you out!


Kerry

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Registered: 09-27-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:43pm

I really appreciate that Kerry, thank you very much.

I'm here just trying to learn as much as I can. I posted something earlier about an issue I was having and was amazed at the response I got.

Matt.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:48pm

Hi Matt, you're welcome!


Now is that a good "amazed" or a bad "amazed?" (Can't seem to find your post.)

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Registered: 11-17-2004
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 9:11pm
Sounds like she knows exactly what she's looking for, and unfortunately, since you list erotica, it's not you...but then why would she send a wink? I would write her back and tell her the same thing she told you :)
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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 9:16pm

A lot of winks and emails, no.

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Registered: 04-18-2003
In reply to: eric_35m
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 9:28pm

Hey Eric!

Sounds like she is in the burn out phase of OLD. She needs to hide her profile ASAP and get on with some other stuff until the shine comes back to OLD, don't ya think? I never had such bitter negative things in my profile, but I got to that place and it made me much the wiser when I went back to the whole OLD thing.

Not to mention...what the hell is wrong with erotica, anyway? I had it in MY profile and I am a chick! And I've been to strip clubs, too. Sure as hell doesn't mean I sit at home in front on my laptop, ignoring my life, and getting off all the time. And you know what else...I even consider myself a Christian woman. Sheesh. :)

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