Shocked About Guy #2

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Registered: 07-20-2001
Shocked About Guy #2
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Wed, 12-07-2005 - 11:52am

Remember my big-time hunter/biker guy from Iowa that I dated for several weeks? The same one who had 3-4 deer heads in his living room and couldn't picture me riding a Harley for 300 miles w/him. Guess what? He messages me yesterday with a picture of him and his recent deer killing! Like I should be impressed by that. We talked superficially for a few minutes, but I told him that I knew I'd never hear from him again after that last strange phone call we had. He tells me that he didn't like my "SARCASM" that night! Can you believe this idiot? There was no sarcasm in our conversation that night--only some teasing like we'd always done. He led me to believe he wanted to start over and then bailed a 2nd time. He glossed over that like that was no big deal.

He went on to tell me that he had some "free time" between now and the next hunting season. I informed him that he didn't get a third chance to bail on me and that I deserved better. He admitted that I did deserve better. However, he also said he enjoyed being able to stay out "hunting" as long as he wanted without worrying about someone being mad at him when he got home. I told him that maybe it was best he was alone and that he'd probably stay that way for at least another 10 years or so with the attitude he had. I ended the conversation by telling him that he was a selfish guy and that I was glad I found that out sooner rather than later and that I would NOT be seeing him around. Revenge is sweet, however, I was doing nicely with forgetting this jerk before this conversation took place. I just can't get over him even contacting me. What an idiot.

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Registered: 12-02-2005
Wed, 12-07-2005 - 8:42pm
I guess he thought 3rd time's a charm since the OP gave him two other times. I wonder who Mitsy's most mad at.....the deer hunter or the fact that he got to her three times. I've done both myself - taken the high road and letting them have "it". Feels much better to take the high road. Letting them have "it" means they got to you and I hate that.

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