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Should I Call
| Thu, 09-15-2005 - 2:31pm |
I recently met someone while I was out having dinner - we ended up talking for 7 hours had a great time!! I left him a message when i got home per his request so he would know i made it home safely - I went away for the rest of the weekend - he left me a message later that evening expressing what a good time he had and looks forward to seeing me again and he will talk to me later- (that was Saturday evening) I retuend his call Monday morning letting him know I too had a great time and would like to chat again soon- its now Thursday and I havent heard from him SHOULD I CALL??

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two more questions??
1) do you think since he called the next night and i didnt return his call for two days he had a problem with that - and if hes not interested why call the next night or at all
2) should i go back to the place i met him tomorrow night - i was invited by some other people i met to meet them there for a drink tomorrow ( he goes there alot and i dont want to seem like i am following him)
SINCE HE CALLED THE NEXT NIGHT AND I DIDNT RETURN THAT CALL FOR TWO DAYS DO YOU THINK THAT TURNED HIM OFF
No, not at all.
If you are going there with your friends, and if he was there and saw you he would not think it's weird or think you were stalking him, then going there with your friends is probably fine.
She needs to be honest with herself - if your friends invited you to this place and you never met this guy would you or would you not go? I think in the back of her mind she hopes to run into him to rekindle their first meeting--wrong move.
Agree, it doesn't matter when you call someone back--if they are interested they will ask you out again, his silence has spoken to you - he's more than likley not interested so move on and yes please stop analyzing, life is too short. Go meet some other men or stay busy with your own life, obsessing is wasted energy.
SP
Agreed.
Are you using your friends to justify going just so you might get to see this guy?
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