Should I call him??

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Registered: 08-16-2004
Should I call him??
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Tue, 02-21-2006 - 9:11pm

I went out with a guy I met from match 2 weeks ago. He called me to set up the date, place, time etc. We had a good time. I wasn't feeling wowed by him but I still had a good time with him. He called me last week and asked me out again for last thursday (2nd date). Again he picked the time and place etc. We had a nice long steamy kiss by my car in the pouring rain after last weeks date. So I knows he's interested. He even said "I can't leave just yet" and kept kissing me. When we finally broke he said "Ok I better go before I say something cheesey." He kissed my hand and left.

I have never called him unless I was calling him back if I missed his call. Do you think I should now call him and ask him to get together? I've always been one to call and sometimes ask the guy out too much. I wanted to make him work for it a little. When should we take the initiative and ask the guy out? I want him to know I like him and would like to go out again.

Stacey

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Registered: 02-19-2004
In reply to: layx2
Tue, 02-21-2006 - 9:45pm

I'm missing something.

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Registered: 08-16-2004
In reply to: layx2
Tue, 02-21-2006 - 9:59pm

I guess I want to show him that I do like him and want to take initiative and ask him out. We've never called each other to just "chat" during the week, it's only been when he's asking me out, which is fine by me. I have a really crazy schedule. I guess my question is how long do we keep the ball in the guy's court?

Stacey

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Registered: 04-17-2003
In reply to: layx2
Wed, 02-22-2006 - 9:28am
Let him chase YOU! If he is really interested in you he will be calling to set up a third date. I know it can be frustrating to leave the ball in their court, but it's a good way to see if he is really into you. Because if he is, he WILL be calling to make plans!
Stephanie
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Registered: 05-19-2005
In reply to: layx2
Wed, 02-22-2006 - 12:15pm

Naw. Make him work a bit more. After all, as one man has said "Men are meant to chase. Not allowing them to do this makes them lazier then they already are".

He knows you're interested.

So you just keep letting him woo you, girlfriend. It's practically a lost art.