Should I email him?

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Registered: 03-26-2006
Should I email him?
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Sun, 03-26-2006 - 6:58pm
Okay, need advice. I just met with a man I met on Match. We've been emailing back and forth this weekend and just met for coffee this afternoon. I think he's really great and attractive but I am not sure how he feels about me. Our meeting went well, or at least I think it did. The conversation flowed easily. I should mention something else..yesterday he asked me to coffee, then I emailed him few times with some pictures he wanted and some chit chat. I got no responses from him, so on the last email yesterday I said I was feeling weird because I wasn't getting a response from him and then I asked him if he was still interested in having coffee. (DUMB) Anyway, I had an email from him this morning saying he was playing cards last night, which is why he didn't respond yesterday. SO, with that happening, I don't know if it's appropriate or a good move for me to send a follow up email to our "meeting" What do you think? Would that make me appear desperate in light of my STUPID comment yesterday? Do I just have to wait for him to email or call me? Help me out ladies. I like this one and would like him to know that I'm interest.
Thanks
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 7:36pm

What stupid comment? I don't think you said anything stupid...you just asked if he was still interested. What's the big deal about that?

Anyway, you met *today*, right? AFTER the so-called stupid comment?

No, I wouldn't email him first...unless you said something indicating you WEREN'T interested, or you think you were ambiguous about your interest in some way. If he's interested, he'll contact you.

Sheri

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Registered: 02-20-2006
Sun, 03-26-2006 - 7:37pm
I recommend sitting on your hands and not emailing. Let him make the next move. And quit beating yourself up over nothing. I don't know why we women analyze the crap out of everything but we do and it's usually to our own detriment. Just simmah down nah (if anyone remembers the SNL skit...lol).


Edited 3/26/2006 8:38 pm ET by lilmisscornfed