Should I stay around?
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Should I stay around?
| Wed, 01-11-2006 - 11:09am |
I've been dating a man I met on Match.com for almost two years. We see each other on the weekends, I've been to every family function, on vacation with him and his family but he's still on Match.com. When I asked him about it he said he was just "talking" to other women. "You don't think I'm seeing them do you?" Well, actually yes I do. He denied it. I've never caught him, but I still wonder. I recently helped him through a health problem which required me to stay with him 24/7 and he asked me to move in. I told him I didn't think it was the right time for the right reason. My problem is that I really love him. What do I do? Just hang in there?

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So you would just walk away from a 2 year relationship because of a feeling you had, without any proof? I find that hard to believe.
Sheri
I just don't think that it's realistic to think that if you got a funny feeling that someone was doing something untrustworthy, that after 2 years together you wouldn't *do* something to confirm that there was a basis for the feeling first rather than just walking away. I personally would start with *talking* about whatever it was that caused the twinge and get to the root of it.
In any event, how is looking at a public website invading someone's privacy? That's so not the same thing as snooping.
Sheri
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