Should I wait for him to call me?

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Should I wait for him to call me?
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:10pm

I've emailed back and forth with this guy a couple of days ago. We agreed to possibly meet with each other next weekend. So I gave him my cell number.

Yesterday afternoon, he called my cell but I missed the call. (Its a new phone and I'm still trying to figure it out). He emailed me right after and told me he tried to call. I emailed him back and gave him my home number and told him to try again possibly today.

After, I figured out how to pick up my messages from my cell phone and saw he had left a message from earlier with his number.

So I'm wondering should I wait for him to call me again or should I call him?

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Avatar for northwestwanderer
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:21pm

So, he called earlier today? If so, then yes, I would return the call. But if you mean "earlier" than your email exchange, then no, I'd wait for him to call per your email.

Sheri

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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:23pm

You should definitely call him back because he already tried to call you.

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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:24pm
The call/email exchange was yesterday. I told him on email he can call me today on my home number. I found his phone message after I replied to his email.
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:27pm
Okay so I will call him tomorrow cus I'm too scared to call today... :S
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:38pm
I understand that you FOUND the message today, but when did he LEAVE it?
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Registered: 08-13-2006
Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:45pm
He left the message when he called yesterday afternoon. I found the message yesterday after I sent him the reply email that contained my home phone number.
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:56pm

Ah, ok, gotcha! In that case, I'd wait for him to call you.

Sheri

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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 8:20pm
Okay I'll wait. Otherwise I'll come across as too anxious. I see he didn't delete my email with my phone number so thats a good sign.
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 1:54am
Also, hes two weeks out of a relationship. Should I nix any hopes of anything more than meeting and just looking for fun?
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 6:02pm
Ugh, I don't know about nixing hopes, but I WOULD be worried about being the "rebound girl". I wouldn't put a lot of hope into this one quite honestly. I don't think he's really ready to be back in the dating game.

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