Should I wait for him to call me?

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Should I wait for him to call me?
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Mon, 01-01-2007 - 7:10pm

I've emailed back and forth with this guy a couple of days ago. We agreed to possibly meet with each other next weekend. So I gave him my cell number.

Yesterday afternoon, he called my cell but I missed the call. (Its a new phone and I'm still trying to figure it out). He emailed me right after and told me he tried to call. I emailed him back and gave him my home number and told him to try again possibly today.

After, I figured out how to pick up my messages from my cell phone and saw he had left a message from earlier with his number.

So I'm wondering should I wait for him to call me again or should I call him?

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:02pm
Thats what I'm afraid of too. I just talked to him and he reassured me the relationship is over. I will still meet up with him and see how he is. If theres no potential, he sounds like a nice guy on the phone and maybe we can just be friends...I'll see...
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Registered: 05-02-2005
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 7:28pm

I know he told you the relationship is over, but he may just be telling you what you want to hear.. I mean, which guy is going to say "Oh actually I really miss her and I'm still heartbroken, wanna meet?" Just be careful. 2 weeks is nothing, even 2 months out of a long relationship would worry me.

Good luck

 

 

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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 8:34pm

LOL! Exactly, he's probably not a moron so of course he's going to say it's over. And sure, technically, it IS over. But even though it's over, he still might not be in a place to date.

Reggie - sounds like you have a good plan for this one. Just take it easy and don't put a lot of expectations into it. So I guess he must have called? ;-)

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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 8:46pm
I called... :S I couldn't help myself, hes too hot and goodlooking! :P
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 9:01pm
LOL - ok, no problem with calling him but seriously, be careful. He might say it's over, but it's only been 2 weeks.

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 5:27pm

So, its was two days ago the guy and I talked on the phone. We agreed to meet on Saturday, and I told him to call me in a couple of days to make the arrangements (so that would be today or tomorrow he should call).

Anyhow, I noticed today he had deleted the last message I sent him that contained my phone number. He had kept this message from last Sunday.

I'm wondering if he will still call me or if he has decided to skip me?

I wonder if I said something that may have offended him? I had told him about a guy I had met that was a fraud. So I told him that I would rather meet in person to see if theres any click before going into too much personal information between each other. Would you find that offensive and make you have second thoughts about me??

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 5:41pm
Ok, STOP wondering about him. If he decides to "skip you" because of something you said, you don't want him anyway. If you offended him with that comment (I wouldn't be offended per se, but it DOES seem a little... I don't know, abrupt?). But regardless, STOP wondering about him, stop wondering if he'll call, stop wondering about Saturday. If he follows up, then go. If he doesn't call - NEXT!

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 5:49pm
Agggghhh!!! So, I messed it up! But hes probably rebounding anyway and probably not looking for anything more than just fun... I'll keep thinking like this so I don't feel too rejected... :(
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Registered: 10-17-2002
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 6:18pm
Jeeminy Christmas, girl! Chill out! No, I'm not saying you "messed it up". What I'm saying is that comment probably wasn't necessary and MAY have come across as abrupt but someone saying something like that wouldn't keep me from meeting them, but it would make me go hmm. You need to stop putting so much thought into these guys you don't know. If they next you without getting to know you, no loss because you don't know them. It's not rejection because YOU DON'T KNOW THEM and THEY DO NOT KNOW YOU.

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Registered: 08-13-2006
Thu, 01-04-2007 - 6:57pm
LOL! I know but sometimes I can't help but kick myself for saying stupid things that could mess up an opportunity or make me come across as someone I'm not.

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