About a year ago, I met "D" on-line. For about 6 weeks, we emailed several times a day, opened up to each other and I thought it was going somewhere, unlike with other people I have met on-line. He told me that another woman he had met on-line previously wanted to start things up again and was going to visit him. He didn't invite her; she just bought a ticket. Anger got the best of me and I sent him an angry email. He pointed out that we had never talked about meeting, never talked about where things were going, and never talked about exclusivity, so why was I angry? He wanted to see if it could work with this woman, but wanted to still keep in touch with me. I told him that I had enough friends and that was that. I haven't heard from him since.
Anyway, since then, all I have met are needy men with no personality; "D" has a personality and we have a lot of mutual interests. Last week, I saw that "D" was online at the site, so obviously, it didn't work out with "the woman". I am thinking about contacting him. Am I stupid? I haven't been sitting around thinking about him, but seeing him online again made me think about him again.
Am I stupid to write to him? Mostly, I'm just curious to see what happened with "the woman", but if something more happened, who knows?