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| Wed, 03-22-2006 - 9:32pm |
Hi everyone! Well, I did meet someon from match about 1 1/2 weeks ago. He was nice, but his personality and mine just didn't match. Plus, when we met..he looked nothing like his picture. Well, I have another meet this Friday. We talked for the first time last night and it was for three hours. I know many think that it's a sign, but I know me too. I can talk to probably anyone. I guess we'll see. I keep my expectations low after that first meet. My questions is this..I had e-mailed a guy and got no response. Being a bold mood, I decided to wink at him after several days. He e-mailed back that he though we had a lot in common, woul dlove to learn more about and commented that I had a great smile. I e-mailed him back and expressed interest in learning more about him too. Well, I sent the e-mail on Sunday, but have heard nothing. Is it possible he's just playing it cool, or is he probably just a ghost if I can even give him that after only one e-mail? I just don't understand the few men that have e-mailed, expressing interest and then neve correspond again after the initial e-mail. Why express interest and then nothing?? Weird, huh?

Yes, it happens. Even the guy you will meet on Friday, you had a 3-hour telephone conversation and after meeting who knows if you will ever see the guy again??
All part of the process of OLD. Remember, most guys are chatting with other people; also have other meets set up, etc. Also people will not necessarily follow your timeframe on when they are suppose to respond. You would fare better about having no expectations and just continue chatting and setting up meets with others.
Good Luck on Friday!!
I agree with your approach...it's nice that he said you could call anytime, but there's no need to take him up on it more than once in a while.
Sheri