skeptical about guy i met now

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Registered: 02-02-2005
skeptical about guy i met now
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Mon, 10-02-2006 - 10:14am

So i mentioned last week that i had a date with someone, it was wednesday actually. things went well, we stayed out for a while and he mentioned that he'd like to get together again and would I. Next day we emailed a few times, then i went away on saturday and dont have internet down there. He had mentioned that he was hoping to see me over the weekend, i asked him when he'd be around, but i left before i got his response. He wrote back a fairly long email (i got the message late last night) he said he wished he'd known i was out friday night because he'd have come met me, then put in parentheses (unless you were on a date of course) and then asked if i wanted to get together sunday (he wrote on saturday)

I responded back saying that we could maybe do something this week. THen i looked at his profile and he's added two pictures. Now i know we only had one date...but the fact that he added other pictures after he and i had our date makes me question his interest level for me. It seems that he is still obviously trying to attract new people with these new pictures. I am still interested in dating others as well...but i guess that is the thing with online dating...in real life you dont 'know' necessarily if someone is dating others...but with OLD it's pretty easy to know, especially if someone is still checking their profile. I actually have thought about that and that is the only unusual problem i see with OLD-just pretty much knowing that they are likely dating others. I have read on the boards about people who met online and are wondering when the other will take down their profile...what do you think? He definitely SEEMS interested, but now that he's put up new pics...i wonder.

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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:07pm
I dont look at it as a problem at all. Its OPPORTUNITY! lol
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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:08pm
how is it opportunity?
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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:10pm

You are going to HATE OLD if you keep up these expectations & worries about what is IS doing in his free time.

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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:12pm
What i mean is that you still have the opportunity to be searching, talking to & seeing other guys. Take it!
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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:19pm

yeah you're right...i do tend to put all my eggs in one basket with dating...OLD makes it hard to do that which is good

I'm from Boston (: Your man must love the Sox! One of my dates (the one i'm skeptical about, lol) took me to a red sox game on our first date...great idea i have to say.

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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:23pm
Are you?

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Tue, 10-03-2006 - 2:38pm
newport is beautiful! I love it there in the summer. I would think there'd be lots of nice, rich guys there? hehe, kidding...i guess there must be a lot of married people with kids there? I guess boston is not far from you. There are a few guys from RI who have contacted me and i think, hello, i dont want a LDR! I have done those before unsuccessfully...but i guess RI is not that far.

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