So I finally met him

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Registered: 09-09-2003
So I finally met him
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Fri, 06-30-2006 - 6:39pm

I posted about this hot movie producer I met on Lava. We started chatting 3 weeks ago at a rate of one email back and forth every 2 days. then I said would you like to meet 4 drinks he says maybe when you are around my place give me a ring. I never replied kuz I felt he is such a showoff and we never met and stopped emailing.
Well yesterday there was a festival in town and I was there with friends and saw him. He is so easy to notice. 6' 4'' tall v. toned and with a dark tan and blond hair. he is impossibly GORGEOUS!**SIGH I was curious to know if it was him so I wrote him asking if he was wearing such and such and walking by this street at 10:30 pm with 2 guys. so he writes back yeah it was me I wish u said hello! so I said I was not sure but next time I see u I will...
so he replies with this:
on Sunday, I am going to go to XXX for a few days and return next Thursday.

Why is he telling me what he is doing? I never asked
Does that mean he is interested but never has time to meet?

After seeing how good looking he is I was very discouraged. I ve had my share of super hot guys and usually they are full of drama or full of themselves. I m looking for a cute guy but not a Brad Pitt since I m by no means an Angelina!




Edited 6/30/2006 7:10 pm ET by juliara2003
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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 9:08pm

Good God, woman, you're kind of disappointed because he's 'good-looking'???! Dang, pass him on to me then...j/k

Think positive and send good vibes. Like they say, hope for the best, but just prepare for the worst. And don't say you're no 'Angelina' because it's all attitude. I'm sure she got told her entire life what big lips she had and now look--she's considered to be one of the hottest women around and she bagged Brad Pitt. You have no idea how attractive you may be to this guy. Even he's that handsome, maybe he's sick of these Barbie doll, high-maintenance girls he's probably dated before. He might be looking for someone real and someone who has beauty not only on the exterior, but also within. You might be what's he's been looking for...good luck!

Keep us posted!

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 10:32pm
I m 31 y/o and all my teens and 20's I ve been attracted to guys who were very good looking. I ve been told I m hot and sexy... but I have a good head on my shoulders and never played with people's feelings. if I liked someone I tell him if not I tell him too. But either I havent been lucky or all hot guys are the drama queens. I m sure I m generalizing big time but for once in my life I want to date a guy who does not blind me with his good looks to the point I ignore his problems. last guy I was in LTR with was gorgeous (so I thought when I met him) I was so proud to introduce him to colleagues, friends and family but when the novelty wore off I realized all the issues he had but it was kind of late and I had made some decisions that made me too involved to quit. later on I finally got the nerves to end it and it was bad. I thought he was the ugliest person I ve met when I looked at him for the last time at the airport!