So much for that.

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Registered: 05-02-2005
So much for that.
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 1:51am

So the guy I have been talking to (voice/webcam) since the summer turned out to be a real weirdo. I was very blunt with him when he came online tonight, I told him how I felt about things he'd been telling me recently and I'm pretty sure he understands that I don't really want to communicate with him anymore.

I spent so much time talking to him and enjoyed our conversations that I'm disappointed (which I didn't tell him of course) and discouraged. I haven't dated much since my ex and just fell upon this guy by coincidence one summer night when I was bored at home.

I'm extremely relieved that I found out these things about him before meeting him, but I do admit that I feel sad... I feel like I just broke up with someone, lol... I guess he got really comfortable all of a sudden and the truth started coming out... Ah well, you live and learn...

Maria

 

 

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 2:12am
Im sorry honey! But yes, at least you found out prior to meeting with him!

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Registered: 05-02-2005
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 2:28am

Oh no I don't mind answering at all. I'll make it short...

Basically he thinks it's completely normal for him and his best guy friend to perform erotic stripteases at social gatherings at said friends' house, in front of friends of theirs and acquaintances (couples and single people). While the children of the hosts are upstairs (not necessarily sleeping, from what I understood.)

I told him that I would never feel comfortable with this and that I don't understand it at all. He went on and on about not being ashamed of his body and other things that made absolutely no sense. Apparently his friend's wife has no qualms with her husband gyrating in front of (lots of) other people... He kept saying that had he done it (I'm sure he already has) nothing would have got out of hand. Excuse me, but once you start taking your clothes off and having a few drinks the lines get blurred and people start doing weirder things... And then I brought up the subject of the kids, I was furious, I said that they were completely irresponsible and he said that if his friends' 12 year old son came downstairs by chance and saw him and his dad prancing about in their underwear (or thongs or whatever I don't want to ) that he probably wouldn't be too traumatised. Oh man...

I think he will go down in history as one of the weirdest people I've ever "known".
Maria

 

 

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